I’m not a gold-digger, but a brains-owner-with-interesting-ideas-to-share-digger
And this DOES make a difference, a big difference! You can often hear ‘why don’t you go out with him, he’s a very nice guy’? And what?
Where this idea of having to be nice to men you have nothing in common with comes from? It might sound dry but one must admit that looking for the appropriate partner in life is not easy thing, and one needs to stay focused whatever happens. Especially in case you are too sensitive and listen to spiteful tongue or “mauvaise langue” as we call them in our dear old French, be prepared to be entitled to labels such as ‘gold-digger’, ‘sexpot’, ‘men-eater’, ‘temptress’, ‘rebel’, ‘prize’, ‘party girl’ Oh! Oh! Just don’t listen to them. Some are seulement retarded 21st century products who want to live as if they were two centuries ago. Let them be!
Don’t be nice! The less nice, the more prized. I tested both: nice and not nice, and yes, if you are nice you’re not taken seriously. A friend of mine, a really lovely woman (at that time! fortunately for her she has changed since!), got harassed by a crazy wife, really crazy one and unfortunately this cost her a good lot, even her job. The crazy woman husband… (to be continued very soon!)